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Rush (1991)
IMDB rating: 6.40
Plot: Raynor (Patric) is an undercover narcotics cop. For his next assignment he chooses the more inexperienced but tough and good-looking Kristen (Jason Leigh). Their ultimate target is Gaines, a renowned but very elusive drug dealer. While doing their work they unexpectedly fall into a morase of drug-addiction and fall in love with each other. Despite subjecting themselves to the life of low class, one track junkies they do not get the evidence they want to convinct Gaines, and instead are forced into using false evidence in court.
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here find and download movie Rush
Directors: Zanuck Lili Fini
Actors: Patric Jason,Elliott Sam,Perlich Max,Allman Gregg,Frank Tony,Sadler William,McCray Special K.,Letts Dennis,Burkley Dennis,Wilson Glenn,Pickens Jimmy Ray,Connally Merrill,Crime,Drama,
Is my boyfriend controlling, will he be abusive?
We’ve been together about 7 months. I love him so much but sometimes he does and says things that make me worry that he is being controlling. (Note- he has schizophrenia, which probably affects his more aggressive behaviour).
He has never told me what to wear as such, but says he doesn’t really like it when I wear skirts to college because other guys might look at me, even accused me of wanting attention (this is a knee length skirt, I’m not dressing provocatively.)
He hasn’t banned me from talking or spending time with friends, but he discourages it and sort of makes me feel guilty for wanting to spend time with girl friends instead of him. He doesn’t like me having male friends, even claiming that they are suspiscious and one guy he said was lying about having a girlfriend and was planning to rape me just because he invited me to a party?
He asks me strange questions about my past, particulary guys I’ve went out with before, then gets really annoyed when I won’t tell him things, he has twisted my wrist and bent my fingers in the past to try and get me to tell him things. What’s worse is when I do answer he will liberally tell me things about his past I don’t want to know like about girls he’s slept with, even though he knows this annoys me.
I nearly walked out once after an argument and he punched a wall, making a dent and his knuckles were bleeding pretty bad.
He can be quite pushy/forwards sexually, which I usually just go along with.
Overall he’s great, he loves me, I believe he isn’t cheating on me, he has never properly hit me, except in play fighting. I really love him and I want to be with him forever but should some of this behaviour be a concern or am I exaggerating? The reason I’m asking is he proposed recently and I kind of accepted because I do really love him and want to be with him, we are not going to rush into marriage although he has suggested it! I said we should wait, which he accepted.. Don’t get me wrong please he is really nice to me, makes me feel great and we have a lot of fun together and share lots of interests I’d hate to lose him. I’m just worried that he might get worse if we get married? x
Oh and sometimes if we have an argument and I try to walk away he will grab my arm and pull me back, hold me against my will, and he ripped my dress once doing this. 
Might be relevant that his father was abusive towards him and his mother, but he says he never wants to be like him!
Don’t stick around. It will become worse…
I was with a very controlling man, and he did indeed become abusive.
Nothing against schizophrenics (my son is one), but his condition is only going to get worse over time. Not saying that people with this illness do not deserve love or companionship because they definitely do, but please take that into consideration.
Mindy | Feb 04, 2010
yeah i think he’s gonna become abusive. my boyfriend used to be kind of like that but definitely not to that extent,we talked about it and it stopped. he’s already violent and it’s only gonna get worse once you’re married. then he’s gonna feel like he really does own you so you have no choice but to obey him. that’s when he’s gonna really start to ban you from doing stuff. i know you love him but talk to him and see what his reaction is. his true colors will come out and then you make your decision. i say run now while you still have even a slim little chance to get away. the longer you wait the worse it’ll get.
Toya | Feb 04, 2010
Real schizophrenics never manage to get girlfriends, so he’s just faking it. faking mental illness is pretty common in the westm trust me, been there.
garshasb | Feb 04, 2010
i can kind of understand/agree about the part of he doesn’t like you having guy friends.
guys are devious and a lot of times its not that he dosnt trust you but that he doesn’t trust the guy.
if he invited you to the party ,why not invite him too.
and if you invite him then would your friend object ?if so then why?
and also he might be weary about how that would look.i mean a girl that already has a man but always hanging around loads of guys?not a good look.
so i can understand all that part but everything else might be something to look into if your thinking about marriage.
but that doesn’t mean you have to split.he might actually be your mr right but could just do with some counseling maybe?
hope i helped.
da blackstallion | Feb 04, 2010
oh girl im sorry dat hes gud 2 you but you need to let him go just b?c he treats you good
mean nuttin hell end up abusing you.trust me ive seen it befor with my mom and dad im only 13 and i know what its like.dont let him push you into doing something your NOT ready for and please dont marry him b/c my mom has 9 kids know,divorced,and its not so pretty.Tell him you want him to take something like classes or pills (mainly classes b/c pills mess you up,i know) befor you go any further!!! good luck youll need it if you marry him and be another wife who loved there man then when you have kids they’ll have to hide there bruises like i did and my guess is if you marry him you wont leave him b?c you feel you need a man in your life.YOU DONT NEED A MAN TO MAKE YOU HAPPY!!!! peace
payasita | Feb 04, 2010
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