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Nothing But the Truth (2008)
IMDB rating: 7.70
Plot: In Washington, D.C., a female reporter faces a possible jail sentence for outing a CIA agent and refusing to reveal her source.
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Directors: Lurie Rod
Actors: Alda Alan,Axmaker Jr. Ken,Bailey Preston,Benet Johann,Brooks Blake,Chamberlin Clay,Clark Larry,Clark Larry,Crider Brian,Detroit Michael,Dillon Matt,Falk Geoff,Geabhart Bob,Drama,
How to deal with a pathological liar?
I could write a novel about what I have endured. TO summarize I have been in a relationship for 11 years. Durring the past two years my girl started an on-line relationship with a person I introduced her to for a future job. I am so depressed and tired now its hard to write the full story but lets just say I lost everything trying to save this womans soul. She hurt me so bad, the affair was taken to a third world country 3 day vacation and you can guess the rest. She became so strong and manipulative that I could not control her at all. She changed everything about herself.
I am so lost. I know I do not want her, or even love her but I am still so emotional. I have endured this for over two years and I am so tired I cannot get up. I am wasted and everyone sees it in me. I have become so sick and weak and so tired of hearing the complicated lies she tells. THe root of the problem is she has a very low intellegence and no character. She has learned to define things as she sees them like well if a kiss was less that five seconds it was not a kiss. Or if I did not tell the whole truth I did not lie.
I am exhausted, I have nothing left. I have to work to survive, but I can barley get through the day without breaking down. Turning to someone else will not work as I have lost all faith in love. I spent the past year going crazy each day with her fighting to the point of serious self injury, crying, I lost over 25 pounds and I am only 170. I have been through living hell, and I just can not find it in me to finally let go. We are on opposite sides of the world now and I am addicted to either emailing or sms’ing her. I know I have to let go but I can’t. No one will be able to tell me why this all happened, or convince me that I am better off. I have nothing. No family, no money, a bad job, I am 40, no children and no hope. I am so seriously depressed I just can not get up. I have ruined my reputation and worn out all my friendships. THis woman has ruined everything I am.
I want to end it all, but somthing inside me wont allow it. Maybe its a sin, maybe I just cant leave the burden on someone. I just dont know, but I do know I am going no where and getting worse each day.
I am so messed up, thats all I keep saying to myself
Please be kind with your answers, I have heard them all before. I need somthing, anything to pull me out of this. I am misserable
If you’ve heard all the answers, I’m sure you’ve been told to move on. In the beginning, she was abusing you. At a certain point, you became an enabler and a co-conspirator in your own abuse.
Change your email and whatever else she has. Use your time off work to volunteer with people who need your help. The fastest way to feel better about yourself is to give yourself away to people who are worthy. Don’t get involved with another woman until you get some counseling and feel much better about yourself.
Call 800.799.SAFE for free counseling. This is the Domestic Violence Hotline. Many centers work with me, and there’s no doubt that what you’ve been through is abuse.
ouragon | Feb 09, 2010
You can’t see your better off or that there is hope because of your severe depression. The depression is also a major part in your inability to let this toxic person out of your life.
She is conniving a manipulating, and she was good at it. You spent all that time with honerable intentions, all that time trying to do right by her and fix things….she used those intentions against you. That is how she manipulated you for so long.
You need to see a doctor and a counselor for your depression. Start to treat the depression and you will be able to see and think clearly enough to fix the other things in your life your not happy with.
You say there is no hope….I promise you there is. Please get treatment for your depression.You will soon begin to feel less messed up and more capable to take positive action in your life.
Its not too late to have all the things you want in your life, including marriage and children.
It may feel like you aren’t able to break contact with her, but that is because you feel so down and out your clinging to her despite the fact she is the cause of your turmoil. This inability to cut her off will fade as your emotional state of mind becomes more stabilized.
I wish you the best of luck.
priv828 | Feb 09, 2010
Quit blaming her, you allowed this to happen You are responsible for your own well being and you feel so sorry for yourself that you won’t do any thing to make your life better. Don’t whine and cry about something that you have control over, just get up and make your life better. Go to counseling to figure out a way, but don’t blame some one else. You say be kind with our answers because you have heard them all before, Why? If this has been going on for this long get up off your butt and do something about it. Kind words only let you feel more sorry for yourself. You want some thing to pull you out of the rut, then grab your pants and start pulling yourself up, If you don’t do it, it will never happen.
LIPPIE | Feb 09, 2010
Well, it’s obvious that you are going through a very rough time, as a lonely person as you described yourself.. I want you to know that it is not the end of the world if you let go of her, you should be focusing on yourself, being happy is a choice, that you should make, being 40 years old is not that old, try to find a better job, indulge yourself again with friends, try to make your schedule busy, if you can’t find friends, go to the gym, it would help you feel healthy, make activities that you like, and avoid sending her anything, avoid any kind of communication with her, as you will only be wasting more of your life, I am sure that you are not alone in this world, finding a better job, indulging yourself in activities you like, making new friends will help you to get over this.. and believe me you should not lose faith in love, love is a very honest feeling, but she was not honest. I think after you recover and start feeling good about yourself, you will find someone else who would love you and value you much more than she did, I do believe that human beings are very talented each in his own way, are very strong and capable of anything as long as they make up their minds. make up you mind to be strong, to feel good about yourself, to love yourself, and you will be happy, and you will be remembering her and laugh on how you wasted your time on such a jerk… Be Strong, no one else would help you but you!
eve | Feb 09, 2010
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